Small Talk Isn’t Small
The Connected Communicator knows how critical it is to get to know our students well. This means learning about our students' families, interests, likes, dislikes, and even their favorite snack. As we gear up for the new school year, we have a whole new group of students to get to know! So, how do we even start?
Never underestimate the power of small talk
First, never underestimate the power of small talk. Asking questions as students arrive at the bus ramp, at lunch, during passing periods, or at recess can give us a ton of information. Students generally enjoy talking about themselves when asked the right questions. You can always lean on pop culture references, music, pets, etc. Develop a system to help you hang onto the information so you can quickly and easily retrieve it later. Erika kept a file in her desk drawer filled with post-it notes with tidbits of information she learned about the students she served so she could go back and reference it later.
Students feel seen when we ask them a question days or weeks later that relates to something we learned about them in a previous conversation. Caregivers are so appreciative when we demonstrate we have taken the time and energy to get to know their child.
Ask for the information then remember to use it
If you are a classroom teacher, having students complete a survey with some key questions is a great way to get to know your students. Consider asking their favorite school appropriate song and then use those to create a class playlist. Make your birthday routine include bringing in the students favorite treat on their birthday. The trick is asking for the information and then remembering to use it! CTC Tip for school administrators- this is also a fun way to celebrate staff on their birthday, or to build a staff meeting playlist! In Ashland, the administrative team had a blast trying to guess who had submitted each song. Giving an educator their favorite snack on their birthday is simple and shows they are valued in a personalized way.
Sometimes getting the conversation flowing can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel stuck.
